The path of least resistance means taking the easiest way.
Hmm. . . . . . I don't know if that can be used to describe the path to adoption. It's definitely full of twists and turns- not exactly a straight line. Getting to the end of the road is your goal but it's the steps you take getting there- whew!!! They can wear you out and make you want to stop dead in your tracks, take a seat on the side of the road, turn around and go back, or try another path altogether. But if you go with God, turning back is not an option. PRESS toward the mark!!!
I heard from my social worker for this process on Sunday, January 2, 2011 via email. She included a 30 page profile, reference form, and financial information. After I took a deep breath, I decided to go ahead and complete the profile and reference forms that day. I believe that writing with that level of focus and intensity allows me to express my truest feelings- not just what other people want to hear. Some of the questions were interesting in that they went back to my childhood, upbringing, attitude towards school and to the present as to what I believe about adoption, parents who lose their parental rights, and my views on parenting.
That was truly heart searching deep work. But when I finished and sent it back that day, I knew that I had given it my best- with room for growth of course. I knew that who I am and what I have to offer is good enough because God will fill in all the missing pieces.
That being true to myself paid off- the next two days doors opened for me to obtain that which I need most to meet the 'requirements' for adoption. Three opportunities came my way this week and each of them went well. I'm confident that the results will only take me closer to the goal of meeting Joy.
So the path to finding Joy requires obedience which starts with hearing, listening, and following through. In order for me to hear, I have to clear all distractions, be still, and trust that the Holy Spirit will go before me once I open myself to His leading.
I pray that this destiny filled path continues to be filled with hope, peace, love, and of course meets Joy :-)
Hello, I loved reading your posts about adopting Joy. I am also a single woman hoping to adopt a teenager. After reading a number of profiles, I feel hopeful that a few of the teenagers would be a great fit for me. I'm a bit scared about some of the stories I've heard about adopting/fostering teens, but I hope those are the rare cases. I would love to know how your adoption is going. Should I just follow your blog? Thanks again for your beautiful and inspiring blog.
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Wow! Your heartfelt words say it all. The more I read, the more I wanted to read. You have a way of bringing this whole experience to life just through your anointed words. As a "to be mommy", you spoke to my heart and truly filled it up, so much that there were places that I just wanted to cry. I now feel even more compelled to accept the beautiful and amazing assignment that God has called Kevin and I to as well. God couldn't have chosen a more beautiful person such as yourself to this special assignment. And we're so glad to be on this journey with you.
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